How your body whispers

We all get complacent.

We go along our way, pushing ourselves, doing more, taking care of business, when suddenly, bam, seemingly out of the blue, our body demands that we STOP!

7 days ago, maybe it was just a hint of being tired, the faintest fogginess in the brain.

3 days ago, perhaps we woke up with a kink in our back, the pep in our step nowhere to be found.

We pushed through those signals, convinced that if we could just get through the next week, the next to-do list, the next mountain of paper or laundry or dishes…

But no, our body screams to us. When we didn’t listen to the whisper 7 days ago, or the yell 3 days ago, our body decided to get out the bullhorn and make sure we stop and listen.  Your screaming body may have symptoms all it’s own, but sometimes it’s a cold or a flu, perhaps a crippling headache or an impossible kink in your back or neck.

You know your bodies’ scream, we all do.

We just need to learn a little more about the way it whispers, or even how it yells.

My body whispers with a pinch between my shoulder blades, a slight tightness in my neck.  I also notice it gets harder to sleep at night, and I burp more, (sorry, TMI – my digestion has a voice too ; )

I’m certainly still learning this one.  When I feel healthy, I feel invincible, and when somethings not right, when my body is screaming at me, the only thing I can think about is how much I want to feel better.  “I’ll never take my health for granted” I think to myself… and then I feel better, the memory of my screaming body slowly fades.

“One who has health has a thousand wishes, one who does not, has but ONE ” ~ Anonymous

Do you know your bodies’ whisper?  I would love to know what it is- Will you share it below?

Make a list, right now, of how your body tells your things are OFF, that you need to tweak your habits, small choice by small choice.

And then notice when those things come up for you.

Listen to your body.  Sounds simple, but it sure isn’t always easy!

How do you re-fuel yourself?

Are you busy taking care of everyone else this Summer, it is important to remember to take care of yourself as well.  I remembered this the other day as I was trying to squeeze in 10 more things before picking my kids up from camp, finish writing an article, respond to emails,  and put that last load of laundry in.  As I looked ahead at the rest of my day, I could see there would be no time to do anything for myself.  So, I let go of the details, and went for a quick run, 20 minutes, tops.  WOW!  It reminded me what a quick blast of exercise does for my body and my mind. I felt great, and was a much better mom and wife, at least for the rest of that day.

That said, I know that getting physical exercise invigorates me, and it also calms me- smooths down any ruffled feathers.  You may have something else that does it for you. Each of us is different in what we need to re-fuel ourselves.

In case you need an invitation, I would like to offer to each of you the gift of self-care.  It does not need to be complicated or time-consuming.  It is much more important that you do it consistently.  The list below is a place for you to springboard from- start your own list of what does it for you.  Be sure to include items for all time frames.

Kalia’s List:
1) Go for a short run or walk.(10-20 minutes).
2) Lengthen my spine and take deep breaths into my belly, (the beauty of this is that you can do it while driving, standing in line…(1-2 minutes))
3) Take a moment to savor beautiful colors, textures, tastes, or sounds.(1-2 mins)
4) Dive into the ocean for a surf or a swim, (30-45 minutes)
5) Connect with a friend for a walk or a cup of tea, (20 minutes- 2 hours)

I hope this list has gotten your wheels turning.  The next step is to choose one thing from the list every day this Summer, (see now why having those 2 minute options are a must?!)

The trick is to not put taking care of yourself off until tomorrow -  Giving to yourself daily allows you to show up the way you want to.  If you can do one nice thing for yourself every day, you will be well on your way to sailing through the Summer feeling energized and ready for anything!

What’s on your list? Post below your ‘must-dos’ that keep you fueled.

Checking your Connections – Part 1- Mindfulness

Often, when we get to this place, this waste-land of being ‘done’, we become open targets for that snarkey little voice in our head that always has something to say- and it’s never anything very nice.  You know, it often starts off with “You always…” or “You never…”, very judgmental, and always condemning.

Left unchecked, this criticism can become a looping, and can suck us even further down.

One of the best ways to silence that voice is to hold the light of mindful awareness up to it. That voice does not like this light.  It wants you to get drawn along on it’s path, believing what it is telling you.
Mindful awareness allows you to connect with the present moment, to ‘see’ the voice for what it is, some old tape running in your mind, that no longer has value.  Once you can recognize the tape, you can choose whether to believe it or not.  Recent research has shown that mindful awareness is an extremely useful way to end the looping of negative thoughts.  But don’t believe me, or the research- try it for yourself.

Mindful Awareness Practice:

  • Pay attention to your breath, allowing yourself to notice the sensation of it, not trying to direct it in any way.
  • Notice sensations in your body. Go from your feet to your head, noticing the sensations in different parts of your body, again, not judging them or trying to change them, just notice.
  • Bring awareness to what you hear.  Explore the various layers of sounds that  are around you.  Don’t label them, just notice.
  • Play with the sensation of taste.  If it’s snack time, choose something that is flavorful or juicy, something with incredible texture or smell, and let yourself savor every element.

Which of these will you choose to connect with the present moment?

Comment Below on  your choice.  Writing your intentions down give them extra oomph, plus extra accountability.

The Forest

I go to the forest for inspiration.  One of my favorite hikes includes lots of different kinds of trees.  The moment I step onto the trail, I get an instant sense of calm and ease.  When I remember to look up, I see so many shades of green and shapes of leaves.  The trees offer a canopy of green that ignites all of my senses.  I see their beautiful color, I hear the sound of the wind through their branches and leaves, I feel the cool, fresh oxygen as if it were a gift to me, I smell the earthy scent of rich soil.  My inner being relaxes, because it know that I am heading for the trail.  Every day is different on the trail.  Some days I meander, some days I run.  Some days I alternate both.  There are days where I hike myself into an endorphin high, and other days where I find a spot to meditate.  Whatever the path brings, when I go to the forest, I know that I can leave it all on the trail.  All of my frustrations, fears, and disappointments can be released.  Knowing this, knowing that I have this available to me, gives me support.  I am eternally grateful for that.

How do you re-set your mind, body and spirit?  Share your favorite ways below.  You never know, you could inspire someone to find ‘their’ way.

Savoring

This month we will look at the practice of mindfulness.  Last month’s 3 mindful alignments is a wonderful place to start.

Let’s  explore another simple way to foster mindfulness.

Savoring:  We savor the moment when we attune to our senses.  We allow all of our attention to go toward the sounds of the birds singing, the smell of the blooming gardenias, or the crisp, juicy texture and flavor of the first watermelon of the season.

In these acts of savoring, we allow another opportunity to be in the present moment, and expanding our capacity to do so.

Reach Beyond

What is ‘Reach Beyond’?   Reach Beyond is an invitation to go further than that place of settling, for any part of your life that is not leading you towards your best health.  Maybe it shows up in your energy level, the amount of patience you have with your loved ones, the way you carry your body, or perhaps the fit of your jeans.  In each moment, each choice, we have the capacity within us to reach beyond.  One way of doing so is to notice those moments, catching the precise breath when the choice is made.  The first step is being able to be aware of those moments when they happen.

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Finding this moment

Here are two practices for bringing your body back into balance after a stressful moment (or moments)

  1. Take time (even 10 minutes) to go for a walk.  Move your body, get your circulation going, clearing your mind of stressful thoughts and lingering stress hormones that keep you out of balance.
  2. When you are sitting at your desk, or in your car, or otherwise unable to head out for a walk, try these three moves (adapted from Healht Acton, Inc)

Creating support

Here’s a great way to stay on track with your goals.  Create solid support from others.  Find  a coach, friend or mentor who will help you stay on track and provide encouragement along the way.

  • Set up a weekly walk with a group of friends.
  • Commit to meeting a friend at a yoga class or for a surf.

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Get Moving

Isn’t it so true, that just getting going can be the hardest part?  I suppose it follows the law of intertia- ‘objects that are at rest remain at rest, objects that are in motion, remain in motion – unless acted on by on outside force’.    What is your ‘outside force’.  With our health and well-being, that force can come from our vision.  Tap into the power of that, and take a tiny little step in the direction you want to go.

Want help getting started?

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Staying Hydrated

Keeping your body hydrated is a simple thing you can do to have more energy, better ability to focus,  lose weight easier, and feel better, inside and out.  We often forget to do it though.  Whether it’s because you don’t like the taste of water, get bored with it, or simply forget to do it, here are some fun ways to inspire hydration, and a simple guide for how to figure  out how much water you need.

  • make a pot of herbal tea, put it in the fridge, and enjoy sipping it throughout the day
  • Add citrus or cucumber to your water

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